Some Thoughts On “To Save a Marriage, Split Up”
People would have better marriages if they’d just learn how to be happy. And yes you can LEARN to be happier. Understanding the dichotomy between the ego and the soul can allow you to find real happiness with exactly what you already have and are. You can learn to ignore the whispers of the ego and listen to your heart. You do this by first forgiving yourself for everything you think is wrong with you and then by forgiving everything you see in front of you and everything from your past that you think is not right. You can curtail outrage by letting go of judgement. You can learn how to just BE. Live in the now. Love yourself. And put love advice above all other priorities. Lead with love like a unicorn horn growing from your head. Question your own intentions. Are your actions coming from the soul or the ego? Do you want to be right? Or do you want to feel love? When both partners decide to become happier people, the relationship will flourish.